Date: 2018-01-06 03:22
The prospect of a secure future: Russian women understand that the standard of living in Russia leaves much to be desired. At the same time, they want their children to be happy and would be glad to provide them with a secure future in a country with a high standard of living.
Hi Anna, just wanted to say I wish more people were like you on online dating.
Without seeing a picture of you I already know that I would message you if I read your profile online. Good luck finding someone you have a connection with!
Using the net, you can easily sign in and browse hundreds of people that may fit you. It is kind of overwhelming. Sorting out profiles of who is most fitted and who are not may consume a lot of time. And time may be an issue. But don’t despair. Take your time to choose as these girls stay here longer than the ones you meet in a club or a bar. Unless you are in Latin America, dating on the internet is the easiest way to meet Brazilians.
Myself, I have a great job, financially set, not picky, average looking, 5'7" 668 pounds, etc. But women are looking for George Clooney, Brad Pitt (hey ladies here is your chance)...online dating is so frustrating...men stand few chances of finding anyone.
Being a romantic is a plus, because it shows you have passion and emotion. However, some people shy away from that word when it’s used on an online dating profile. Why? Because they might think the person is overly mushy or seeking serious commitment. Instead, use the word passionate or ambitious to describe your romantic side.
The point is this - they don't have to WORK to get attention. Attention comes to them, both good and bad. If they post a picture with them in a swimsuit, they are going to get some pretty bad attention. If they instead post of picture of them praying in a church, they are likely to get a different kind of attention. They do have some control, and some means of filtering and directing what attention they want, at least to some degree. Nice guys don't have that option. We have to put our best pictures out there. The most attractive. The most interesting. Our profiles must be perfect. Our messages must be interesting, eye catching. It's pretty unfair when you really think about it.
I think the anger from both men and women in this thread boils down to that. 99% of people on dating sites are overly focused on looks and are extremely superficial. If you're not, then man or woman, I don't think your experience at dating sites is going to be very positive unless you are exceedingly lucky and find a guy who feels the same way you do.
To women, any man who is not rich or far above average in looks is a 'creep'. If the author of this article is unaware of this truism I have to wonder why she is posing as a man???
Women have all the power. Due to slut shaming they don't message guys first unless you're A) a male model or B) look like you have a lot of money.
Online dating is pointless for men since men have to do all the work.
Like a majortiy of men want to be seen and known as a "nice" guy, women want the same. They're looking for someone to see WHO THEY ARE not see WHAT THEY LOOK LIKE. We understand, by the fact that you've messaged, that you find us attractive and, if things go well, you'd very much consider being sexually intimate with us. That's a given. There's no need to mention it.