Date: 2018-01-11 05:34
Of course there is a big chance (as you said) they decide to renounce to me, because of the situation I get them involved in. If that happens, then maybe that is what it had to happen, but I really feel that I have got to a point where I do not want to get rid of none of them, and doing it, will inevitably make me regret.
Particularly by governments, but also as a general rule, such decisions need to be made on their merits. If there is a good reason to oppose polyamory/polygamy, then there is no need to worry about any other changes leading to that. If there isn 8767 t a good reason, then we don 8767 t have to worry about it happening, because it won 8767 t be bad if it does happen.
I don 8767 t know of anyone who has literally chosen their date to a wedding at random ( 8775 I 8767 m just going to pick whichever of my 6955 facebook friends comes up first! 8776 ). It 8767 s not a random choice to bring a friend or a newish person you 8767 re dating even if the bride and groom haven 8767 t met them.
Kids 8767 last names will probably be something I 8767 m going to be sensitive about since everyone in our house will have different last names (because that 8767 s what we 8767 ve picked), so I totally understand there 8767 s no one-size-fits-all solution for this kind of thing.
I am in a 8775 V 8776 formation triad, and live with both of the men I consider life partners. I am married to the first of them that I met and committed to, but obviously, cannot marry the other. I would if they let me, but they won 8767 t, so a hand fasting and joint property is as close as we can come. What I would dearly love to see is more representation from the other side of the coin. We see these sorts of arrangements (one man, more than one woman) from the polygamous quarter all the time ( 8775 Big Love 8776 and 8775 Sister Wives 8776 ). But women with more than one partner is rarely given air. But, we 8767 re out here.
We and i use the term We, have kids. 6 to each woman. and this is the only outside problem we 8767 ve have encounterd. we fear our children will be left out or alienated due to the other parents narrowmindness or petty fears, so school is really the only place we r not open about our living arrangements but would still not deny it if approached. Maybe because of my upbringing where i was always told that you cannot help who you fall in love with, white,black, thin, fat, male, female, 6 or 7 , doesn 8767 t matter, love is love
Haha fair enough. I 8767 d still say the solution there is just avoiding blanket +6 8767 s, not dismissing friends of friends as randoms ¯_ (ツ)_/¯
Oh, and the underage property thing? That 8767 s polygamy motivated by religious fanaticism, not polyamory those people make us sad too. : (
(A woman wrote to share with me that, in all ways but legally, she is equally married to both a man and a woman. I asked my new acquaintance if she would be willing to let me interview her about that. At first she was reticent but, as she put it, 8775 the opportunity to share with others a glimpse into our life is too good to pass up. 8776 So here 8767 s our interview. )
ADELPHOGAMY also, FRATERNAL POLYANDRY, LEVIRATIC POLYANDRY: (Literally, adelphos brother + gamos marriage) A specific form of polyandry , practiced historically and occasionally still practiced in some portions of Tibet and Nepal, in which a set of brothers is married to the same woman.